SET THE STAGE
Pivoting is a component of every step in the Circles of Healing.
Pivoting is it’s own phase as well as a component of every phase in the Cycles of Healing.
Abbey describes a pivot as centering into wherever you might be with full awareness of this space, and then the turning begins. A pivot is being rooted in a space of where you have been, awareness of where you hope to go, and an actual pivot towards what you desire.
There is a good metaphor for an intentional/chosen pivot in that of a basketball player. After the point guard runs down the court and calls a play, there is a point when they pause, then they plant one of their feet in order to allow the other to pivot. The pivoting foot can freely move until there is an opportunity to make a play. This whole process happens within milliseconds. Much like in life sometimes.
Sometimes, however, there are unchosen, unintentional pivots that are required of us. We did not choose a metaphor for this, mostly because we think you can identify an example of this within your life. What we do want to share is that even in the unchosen, there are pivots we have the opportunity to choose. Life changes on a daily basis - and whether we recognize it or not we pivot out of choice or necessity. Either way, chosen or unchosen - pivot we do.
Pivot Point: Where You Break Free
Therapist Beth Johnson’s blog is one of many examples we could provide that explains the importance of an internal pivot versus an external pivot. Setting intention within yourself versus outside of yourself allows us to more accurately measure what we want to be possible in pivoting. We invite you to read her blog and allow yourself to explore how you have been measuring items of internal significance to you by external standards.
A Pivotal Part of Life
As we continue to explore pivoting, therapist Josh Stanley is inviting you to consider all of the ways you have pivoted and will continue to pivot. He believes pivoting to be an integral step throughout a Circle of Healing. He invites you to explore through his own life’s pivots, how pivoting can be embraced as essential within your life.
Learn More About The Pivot
Therapist Abbey Parker is inviting you into exploring pivotal opportunities in your life. As Josh outlined, “Pivoting can provide a moment of clarity and foresight into what direction we wish to move”. We invite you to sign up for this one-time free email and begin exploring the call to pivot.
NAVIGATE THE POSSIBILITIES
You could call this imagery a model for healing, within a Cycle of Healing, we define what we want to be possible or identify what we believe to be possible. In this cycle there is a time to Pause, Plant, Process, Pivot, Practice. We are not prescribing to this order indefinitely, we invite flexibility to identify what parts are important and how this cycle connects with you. We will take time to outline each part and offer opportunities for you to join us in working towards what you want to be possible.
A stop or rest. Victor Frankl describes this type of pause, “Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”
To put or set in the ground to grow (etymology.com). This part of the cycle offers an opportunity to ground yourself from within before making any actionable step. It is both a noun and a verb. To cultivate and to ground.
To grieve what is or has been lost and to identify and experience the hope for the future. We have broken up this content into 2 pages: the concentration on the loss we have experienced and the ability to transform through loss with hope for the future.